It’s often said that motivation is the key to success. But what exactly is motivation? And how can you get and stay motivated?
To me, motivation is simply the desire to reach a goal. It’s what pushes me to do things, even when they’re hard. I know people have different reasons for being motivated—some want to make a difference in the world, while others want to be financially or professionally successful. Whatever the motivation is, it’s important to set specific, realistic, and achievable goals.
Of course, even the best plans can get thrown off by life’s surprises and challenges, especially with long-term goals. That’s why it’s important for me to find ways to stay motivated when things get tough. These tips will help.
Motivation Tips
1. Rewire Your Mind to Think Positive
Have you ever found yourself feeling unmotivated for no reason, or dwelling on a mistake long after it’s been made? If so, then you’re not alone—me too. Negative thinking is a common trap that we can all fall into from time to time. But the good news is that it’s possible to rewire your brain to think more positive thoughts. Think of your brain as a muscle, that just needs the right exercise. Here are three strategies that can help:
- Be mindful of your self-talk. The way you talk to yourself can have a huge impact on your mood and outlook. So next time you catch yourself saying something negative, try to reframe it in a more positive light. For example, instead of “I’m such an idiot,” try saying, “Everyone makes mistakes sometimes.”
- Practice gratitude. A daily gratitude practice can help train your brain to focus on the good in your life, rather than the bad. Every night before bed, take a few minutes to write down three things that you’re grateful for. It could be anything from your happy family and friends, to a roof over your head and a tasty meal you ate that day. Can’t think of anything? See my 250 Things to Be Thankful For Today.
TIP: I use (and love) the app Gratitude to keep my daily list of things I am thankful for. It’s easy to use and you can set notification reminders, so you never forget to add to your list!
- Surround yourself with positive people. You know what they say—you are a product of the 5 closest people you spend the most time with. The company you keep influences the way you think and feel. Having the right people in your circle will help you shape your character and outlook in life for the better.
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2. Keep a Daily Journal
I’ve already shared the benefits of writing down your list of gratitudes, which can also be a part of journaling, but journaling goes a little bit deeper—it’s like having a heart-to-heart with yourself. It’s a chance to unload your thoughts, feelings, and experiences onto the page. Whether I’m jotting down my dreams, working through a problem, or just capturing daily events, journaling helps me process my emotions and understand myself better.
Plus, there are actually many benefits to journaling on a daily basis. Here are a few:
- It can help you feel more positive and optimistic.
- It can help reduce stress and anxiety. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, simply putting your thoughts down on paper can help to provide some relief.
- Daily journaling can improve your memory and cognitive function. By regularly recording your thoughts and experiences, you’re helping to strengthen your brain’s ability to recall information.
3. Be Clear About Your Goals
A lot of people have trouble achieving their goals because they’re not really sure what they want. If you’re unclear about what you want, it will be hard to put a plan together and take the steps necessary to make it happen. So how do you get clear about your goals? Ask yourself what you want to achieve.
Make sure to dream big and write down all your long-term and short-term goals. Once you have your list, then go through and really define each item clearly. Don’t just settle for the goal to own a house, be more specific. What size of house do you want? What city do you want the home to be in? Etc…
4. Go Public About Your Goal
One way to increase the likelihood of achieving our goals is publicly announcing them to friends, family or even on social media. This may seem like a small and insignificant act, but announcing our goals in public makes us accountable to other people. This can help to motivate us to take action and follow through on our plans.
5. Make a Commitment
It’s not always easy to stick to your goals. You may start out with the best of intentions, but life has a way of getting in the way. Before you know it, you’re off track and feeling overwhelmed.
So, make a commitment to yourself to keep moving forward with what you want to achieve. For me, the commitment was to take one step towards my goals every day. It didn’t have to be anything major or time consuming, just as long as I was moving forward. For you it could be taking one step every week or committing a couple hours every month. Whatever it is, stick to it!
6. Get Support
Getting support from others is crucial when trying to stay motivated to complete a goal because it provides encouragement, accountability, and a sense of community.
When you share goals with supportive friends, family, social groups or mentors, their encouragement helps you to stay positive and focused. Plus, they can offer valuable advice and perspective that you might not have considered on your own. Ultimately, having a support system means you’re not alone on your journey, and that collective energy can make all the difference.
7. Celebrate Any Victories
When it comes to celebrating our accomplishments, it’s important to remember that not all successes are created equal. But, a small achievement is just as worthy of celebration as a big one, and in many ways, they can be even more valuable. For one thing, small accomplishments are more attainable, which means we’re more likely to achieve them and experience that satisfying feeling of success. They also help us to build momentum and keep our motivation high.
So next time you reach a goal, big or small, take a moment to celebrate your achievement. Treating yourself with things like your favorite food or some pampering at the spa can go a long way in keeping you motivated.
For some great reward ideas, check out my 77 Ways to Reward Yourself.
8. Be Persistent & Stick With It
Anyone who has ever achieved anything significant will tell you that persistence is key. It’s not always easy to stick with something, especially when you hit a setback or run into difficulty. However, the ability to persist through tough times is essential for achieving any meaningful success.
Even when times are tough and you don’t feel like it, keep chipping away at that goal. Maybe you can make the steps a little shorter or smaller, but don’t quit!
9. Find Inspiration
Inspiration is all around us—you just have to know where to look for it. Here are a few ways I find inspiration:
- Spending time in nature. Stepping away from technology and the fast-paced life to spend time in nature can help you feel refreshed and recharged.
- Other people. Seeing how others have overcome challenges and achieved their goals can remind you that anything is possible.
- Books, movies, and articles. These are full of inspiring stories and quotes that can help you on your own journey.
If you are looking for more inspiration, here are 30 Simple Things You Can Do To Get Inspired.
10. Share Your Progress with Others
We already talked about the importance of sharing your goals publicly, but you should also continue to share your progress along the way. It’s not only a great way to be held accountable, but also a nice way to get a little extra pat on the back.
11. Break Your Goal Down into Daily Tasks
When you’re trying to achieve a goal, it can be helpful to break it down into smaller, daily tasks. This can help to prevent being overwhelmed, and then freezing without doing anything. Looking at a big goal in its entirety can be downright scary. However, by breaking the goal down into bite-sized chunks, you’ll gradually move closer to your dreams and build momentum along the way.
12. Keep Dreaming
It’s so important to keep dreaming and visualizing completing the goal. Sometimes, when we get bogged down in the details or get sidetracked by everyday challenges, it’s easy to forget what we’re working towards. But if we take a step back and remember our dreams, it can help us refocus and stay on track.
Everyday take some time to visualize crossing the finish line and celebrating your accomplishment. Picture how happy and proud of yourself you’ll feel. And then get back to work!
13. Be Proactive
Proactive people don’t wait for things to happen; they take the initiative and make things happen. So, if you’re looking to accomplish a goal, start by proactively identifying the steps you need to take and put a plan in place. Then take action and keep moving forward until you reach your goal. Remember, one bite at a time!
For help read 7 Ways to Adopt a Proactive Mindset–and Achieve Success
14. Give Yourself Breaks
Nobody ever said that reaching a goal was going to be easy. Whether you’re trying to lose weight, save money, or get ahead at work, it can be tough to stay focused and on track.
One way to help yourself stay motivated is to give yourself regular breaks. Just like a car needs gasoline to keep running, your brain needs occasional refueling too. Even taking a five-minute break every hour can help you feel refreshed and ready to tackle the next task. It can be as simple as doing some stretches or going for a short walk outside.
15. Have Consequences
You’ve defined your goal and made a commitment, but what happens if you don’t follow through on your plan? If you don’t have any consequences for not following through, it’s easy to let your goal slip away.
Consequences can be a powerful motivator, but only if used correctly. If the consequences are too severe, they can be discouraging and lead to giving up on your goal altogether. On the other hand, if the consequences are too lenient, they won’t be enough to motivate you to take action. Finding the right balance is key.
16. Approach Tasks in New Ways
Sometimes the key to success is simply finding a new approach to the problem. Rather than getting stuck in the same old patterns, look for a fresh perspective that can provide new insights. This could involve talking to someone who has faced a similar challenge, looking at the problem from a different angle, or even taking a completely different approach.
17. Be Kind to Yourself
Being kind to yourself is an essential part of leading a happy, healthy and less stressful life. But, it can also be a great motivator. When you feel at peace, it can motivate you to move forward with your dreams.
Here are some tips for being kind to yourself:
- Take time each day to do something that makes you happy. This can be as simple as reading your favorite book, a walk in nature, or enjoying a delicious meal.
- Be accepting of who you are. We all have flaws and imperfections, and that’s what makes us unique and special. Learn to love all aspects of yourself.
- Be patient with yourself. Progress takes time, so don’t expect miracles overnight. If you’re working on making a change in your life, give yourself grace and know that it’s okay if you make mistakes along the way.
- Give yourself permission to say no. You don’t have to please everyone all the time. It’s okay to put your own needs first, especially when you already have a lot on your plate. If you need some help, read my 115 Ways to Say No.
18. Change Your Environment
When you’re feeling stuck in a rut, it just may be time to change your environment. Research has shown that making even small changes to your surroundings can lead to increased creativity and productivity.
So, if you’re struggling to find motivation, try rearranging your furniture, updating your décor, or working in a new location.
19. Exercise
Exercise is one of the best ways to get yourself motivated! When you exercise, your body releases endorphins, which have mood-boosting effects. In addition, exercise can help alleviate stress and improve your sleep quality. All of these factors can lead to increased energy and motivation levels.
20. Get Enough Sleep
One of the most important things you can do for your health and productivity is to ensure you get enough sleep. When you don’t get enough rest, it can negatively affect your energy levels, mood, and ability to concentrate. Not only that, but lack of sleep can also lead to weight gain, heart disease, and other serious health problems. Yikes!
21. Get Organized
Most people have experienced the feeling of being overwhelmed by a messy room or cluttered desk. It can be difficult to find what you need and even harder to stay focused on your work, which is why tidying things up is essential.
Research has shown that there are significant benefits to maintaining a well-organized workspace. When your environment is tidy and organized, it can help you to feel more in control and less stressed. In addition, being able to find things quickly and easily can save valuable time and increase your productivity.
22. Practice Optimism
Optimism has been shown to have a number of benefits for both mental and physical health.
- Optimistic people are more likely to take care of their health and follow medical advice.
- Optimism has been linked with a lower risk of heart disease, stroke, and cancer.
- Optimists tend to live longer than pessimists. One explanation for this is that optimists tend to have better social support networks, which can lead to better health outcomes.
- Optimists also tend to be more resilient in the face of adversity and setbacks.
For some guidance, my friend wrote a wonderful book about optimism: The Optimist’s Manifesto: An Optimist’s Guide to Living.
23. Keep It Fun
Achieving a goal can be a fun and rewarding experience, but it can also be a lot of work. If you find yourself overwhelmed by the tasks ahead, remember that there are ways to stay motivated and have fun all at once.
It can be as simple as making a special playlist that you listen to whenever you’re working on your goal or using colorful stickers to track your progress on your calendar.
24. Make Working Toward Your Goal a Habit
To achieve your goal, make working toward it a habit. Start by identifying the habit you need, like waking up earlier or packing your gym bag the night before. Ensure it’s something you can stick to. Then, integrate it into your routine with reminders or visible cues. If you slip up, don’t worry—just get back on track and keep going.
25. Recognize Your Roadblocks
Everyone faces obstacles when trying to achieve their goals, and recognizing them is the first step to overcoming them. There are four main types: financial (like not having enough money), psychological (like self-doubt), physical (like an injury), and logistical (like not having enough time).
Once you identify what’s holding you back, you can plan to overcome it. For instance, to save money, sell unneeded items or budget monthly. If fitness is an issue, find a workout partner or join a gym. Recognizing obstacles helps you clear them and get closer to your goal.
26. Start Small
Dreaming big is fantastic, but sometimes starting with a little goal is okay too. Starting small is a great way to keep you motivated and prevent you from getting overwhelmed when working towards a goal. Breaking it down into smaller pieces will make it more achievable and help you build momentum and motivation as you check off and celebrate each step. But, you can also just start with one of the small goals on your list.
27. Limit Distractions
Staying focused on a goal can be tough with so many distractions around. To achieve your goal, you need to stay on track.
Try taking breaks from social media and other distractions; you’ll be more productive without them. Set specific times each day or week to work on your goal, and stick to those times. Having a clear plan and timeline will help you know exactly what needs to be done and when.
28. Tackle Procrastination
If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you’re procrastinating on something. Maybe you have a paper due for school or a big project at work, or even putting off doing the dishes or taking out the trash. Whatever it is, we’ve all been there. Procrastination can be a tough habit to break, but it’s important that we try. For help, check out my Anti-Procrastination Worksheet.
29. Track Your Progress
Many people find it helpful to set goals in order to improve their lives or achieve certain ambitions. However, it can be tough to know if you are making progress towards your goal if you do not have a system for tracking your progress.
There are a few key things that you can do to help you track your progress and ensure that you are on track to reach your goals. These may include making a simple spreadsheet, journaling your progress at the end of each day, or creating a large wall graph which can also double as a reminder.
30. Understand Your Why
Understanding the reason why you want to achieve a goal is important for a number of reasons. First, it can help to keep you motivated when the going gets tough. If you know why you’re doing something, it’s easier to push through the challenges and stay focused on your goal. Second, understanding your motivation can help you to set better goals. If you’re clear about what you want to achieve, you’re more likely to achieve it. Finally, having a clear idea of your motivation can help you to avoid distractions and stay on track.
Few things are as frustrating as trying to work on a project and feeling completely unmotivated. Whether you’re struggling to meet a deadline at work or finding the energy to clean your house, a lack of motivation can make even the simplest tasks seem impossible. Fortunately, knowing how to get motivated is achievable with the right mindset and some can-do attitude. Get and stay motivated with these tips!
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